Hosting Conversations about Questions that Matter
Hi everyone! My name is Shawn Bianchi, and I've just had my first experience with a World Cafe this past Monday the third at the University of California, Santa Cruz campus.
Before getting into the meat of the night, we reminded of ourselves of the qualities which foster good communication. Patience, really listening (as opposed to preparing what you have to say while another is talking), earnest engagement, and passion, were among them. With those qualities in mind, we begun our conversation.
The night was centered around discussion of globalization. In a small group with two others, we were first asked to define what globalization was, and this was really important for setting the foundation for the rest of the meeting, at least for me. I realized that I didn't have much of a concrete understanding of what that word, globalization, means. My own thoughts immediately dived into the hypothetical, and ignored the reality of how globalization is occurring today. I thought, well, successful globalization would look very similar to a successful conversation, full of patience, passion, and understanding between countries and cultures across the world. So it surprised me when the other two people in my discussion group began to discuss the economic realities of globalization -- the domination of western capitalist ideas and corporations, swallowing local cultures across the globe. It's not that I hadn't been aware that such things were happening, it was simply that this wasn't on my radar when the question "What is globalization?" had been prompted.
And that led me to something of a revelation, and probably the most important part of the night for me. The World Cafe, at least on that particular night, was centered on real-world problems. That sort of focus is something that I'm not used to in my every day life, and it the juxtaposition of the kinds of answers given by myself versus those of my group members made that extremely apparent. But it's something that I need if I hope to make a real difference in the world, and that is something that, from that night forward, I will be very aware of when I approach any problem in the future. The World Cafe provided me with an invaluable tool in only a single night.
I don't mean to focus on only that aspect of the night, as what came before and followed that point was fantastic as well. Our second discussion did highlight some hypothetical aspects, funnily enough. In new groups, we went on to talk about how we could intervene with the extremely damaging path that globalization is on, and guide it into a more positive pathway. Our group found a mutual frustration in the difficulties of finding productive places to put forth our energy, as well as not knowing which organizations were worth our time. We did all agree that the ideal state of globalization was to foster a world which different cultures were aware and educated of each other, and to respect one another without trying to become one another.
The night ended with a wonderful meal over a relatively casual discussion of the drought California is currently facing. This conversation focused less on how to solve this issue, as we all seemed to understand what a precious resource water is and the importance of conservation, and more on a mutual frustration with the lack of such consideration other organizations seem to be using water.
All in all, I am extremely excited to have found The World Cafe. I have learned so much in this one night, and I can't wait to continue to learn. I only hope that I can be as valuable to The World Cafe as it has been and will be for me.
Tags: uc santa cruz, ucsc
Permalink Reply by Amy Lenzo on March 1, 2014 at 5:45pm Shawn,
What a wonderful story. Thank you for sharing your experience like this! We don't often have reports of what it is like to participate in a World Cafe, and I really appreciate your doing so.
The fact that the "energy" in each of your rounds of conversation was different is quite common in World Cafes, and one of the most interesting aspects of this process, to me, is the opportunity to hear so many different perspectives.
Sometimes in these rounds of small group conversations, I find I am am able to listen into the space "between us" and hear something that is beyond or behind or somehow growing out of the individual responses I'm hearing and/or speaking. When that happens, I can sometimes get a glimpse into some kind of collective understanding of the issues being talked about.
Or sometimes I have personal insights like the ones you were sharing in your story, that help me see the topic just a little bit differently than I did before, or give me a clearer view of myself or my perspective. And other times a practical solution will emerge, whether by design or happy accident.
I'm so glad your first experience with the World Cafe was fruitful, and I hope you will continue to mutually learn and play - and share your experiences - with others here so we can learn together!
Warmly,
Amy
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